If the punchline of your "joke" boils down to HURR HURR HURR LOOKIT THOSE IDIOTS REACT, please don't tell it to me and give serious thought to not telling it at all. This includes donating to a cause not universally supported in the name of someone who opposes it. It's not funny, merely tribal and, if the conflict is over deeply-held feelings, needlessly cruel.
This applies even if "they'd do it to you." There are people in this world who'd skin you alive for a pack of smokes and even so, you don't get to make lampshades out of them. If you think you ought to, you are no better than they are.
Be the grown-up you'd like to see in the